Good on paper but…

Was catching up on reading. Came across this:

Be more like them or else.

Seems that in the end, more of us are in the same boat, than not.

Take note of the first comment. She was more on point than she guessed.

LHS told me something the other day.

He had broken up with the love of his life about 6 months ago. She called to say a few things.

With one eyebrow raised, I listened. I heard his bruised ego and his last bit of love for her.

After I made my nice and supportive comments, I asked him what was the purpose of telling me what happened.

He said that he wants me to know what is on his mind.

I asked if that changed anything.

He said it did not.

I paused, waiting. So did he.

With a soft sigh, I asked him what did he want to do now.

His smiling voice caressed my cheek, as he told me.

We will see.

I prefer for us to “do”, however.

As I mentioned, I need to change my blog title to clearly explain who and what i am.

Turns out i am good on paper but not always so good in reality. Good theory that just does not always translate exactly in applied practice.

The idea of me is tantalizing to some. But when I do not deliver on those fantasies, it is not so great. I am a tad stubborn.

I mentioned before that I have rules, limits and preferences.

I am so terrible, I am laughing, not even discouraged from being the self-centered wench that I am.

I need to see how much I can change, without having to re-do this entire blog.

I am still AH- Aneris Harmonia. The Academic Hooker.

I shall not change my initials to gee oh pee. Oh no! That is soooo not me.