It does not…
April 24, 2008 at 8:37 pm (interior)
Tags: nevermind
..seem to matter. Being very good or bad.
As a woman, I have discovered that the good girl nor the bad really win.
It boils down to who you are.
You can be good and die without ever having a husband. And vice versa.
We all see people that are very much maladjusted, but they have a great spouse or steady lover/date.
We also see good and wholesome people that can’t get a decent date.
I think that men are looking for two things in the end. How needy a woman is or if he can save her.
They can see through the veils we hang up. They penetrate the facade.
A strong, thoughtful and independent woman can act as naughty or nice as she wants, but she still has that core. That sure and true essence that defines her.
Which causes some men to shy away and flinch.
Modern women are derided for not being old-fashioned enough, not ready to settle down and so forth.
I disagree. Many want to do so but they are not given the benefit of the doubt, or a second chance.
So how can they?
The old adage is that a whore can’t be turned into a housewife. But it goes on every day.
What about turning a nice, mature woman into a housewife?
I forgot. She is not needy. She will be okay.
She is strong, after all.
