I sure don’t
May 12, 2008 at 9:19 pm (not thinking, side trips)
Tags: rude, uncouth, lacking
Quick note, 2 points:
1. A man I recently met asked if I watched porn.
I replied in the negative.
He seemed surprised. I explained that life is fractured enough, I like my sex holistic. I think that porn is not good or bad, just it is what it is and I step aside of that fray.
He can watch it, but with some other woman.
There has to be a more imaginative way to try and turn me on.
2. A guy who thinks he likes me made one comment two many about a woman’s hotness.
Yes, beauty is beauty. Admire it. But it is gauche to expect me (if he wants to screw me) to chit-chat about the hotness factor of said woman passing by.Or on TV, movie, whatnot. Admiration yes, but ogling, no.
He is Stateside, so he may forget his manners. In the bullpit we all wallow through daily, some of us can’t shuck our battle gear and mentality outside the door.
I do not like spitting in the street, being rude to strangers or treating me like I am one’s “homie.”
Shudder and frown,
Aneris
mnwhr5 said,
May 12, 2008 at 10:27 pm
You definitely keep your friends on their toes, which is as it should be. But please don’t think being stateside is the root of the second gentleman’s rudeness, some of us are raised properly.
Aneris said,
May 13, 2008 at 12:08 am
Prof. Mnwhr,
I have been fortunate in that my Continental friends exhibit impeccable behavior.
As for the men in the States… it is common now to include one’s casual sex uddy in ruminations of other women charms. Surely you have heard tell of the going-to-the-strip club-date?
They were raised right, then just prefer to pretend they were raised under the back porch.
curiousgirl said,
May 14, 2008 at 3:28 am
lol…you said uncouth…hehehehe…love that word…i love using it…”you are completely uncouth and therefore ill fit to be in my presence”….lol
cg
ms.inconspicuous said,
May 17, 2008 at 8:12 am
*shakes head sadly* What kind of man thinks that ruminating on another woman’s attractiveness is going to woo a potential partner? Are you his buddy–his guy-pal? No. Are you going to laugh and expound upon the glory of said woman’s “tits”?
*sigh* Yuck.
Aneris said,
May 19, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Not home, away of trip but real quick:
CG: they are quite uncouth. I am sick of the boorish and totally fucked up behavior.
Ms I:A number of men think it is super smooth sexy hot to tell a woman how fine another one is, or point out her attractiveness in a “non-threatening” way. I think for some men, the perfect woman is on that acts like a guy but still fucks like a girl. Dunno…